Saturday, April 24

Boys who cheat.

I know, most of my posts now are very emotional. It just had been an emotional month. I deleted the backstabbing post because, SOMEONE was too cowardly to make up for her own mistakes and had to go report to.. oh nevermind, even if i type it out no one would really understand anyway. So, heres another emotional post.

Okay, let me leak to you a secret bout myself.

I'm a lesbian

Im kidding.

but you know what ? Guys are just pathetic.
Not all guys, i mean some guys. I just can't bring myself to trust another guy anymore except for my sexy people

They're like sisters with an extra something.

I had been in tons of relationships, but i've only liked three people.
One was my childhood crush, whom i liked since i was five. I got over him eventually when i was 11 LOL. The other one was my first boyfriend who cheated and the last one was someone who semi-cheated. idk if its considered cheating so its semi cheating
So you see, my love life is screwed up. I have a bad reputation of having alot of boyfriends but thats all in the past, I'm single and glad :)

Okay so back to topic. I've got together with 1 and a half cheaters in my life and gosh, when I see someone cheating on my friend, I really want to walk up to him and tell him to beep off and get a real life.

There's this friend of mine, who has a boyfriend who happens to be in KL. She doesn't have facebook so she doesn't really check on her boyfriend or anything. Today I found her boyfriend's facebook profile, and it says "In a relationship with SOMEONE ELSE" . I got even more curious, or kaypoh you may say so I clicked on a link to his blog and I swear, what I see before my eyes is a really really really sweet guy. All his posts were about his girlfriend, the whole blog was practically dedicated to his girlfriend. There were poems, love songs, sweet things, all the things girls like.

BUT, he's a cheater.

Then there was another case, when the boyfriend is in another school flirting with some random chic while the girlfriend is doing all his homework ETC. She even lets her boyfriend touches her all over and see her through. Okay maybe the guy is not a cheater, but he's a jerk and that girl is WAY TOO CHEAP.

Lets not talk about us teenagers aight ? Since in the previous post, tons of people were talking bout PUPPY LOVE. How bout the old old uncles with china dolls ? Do they not have a wife/family ? Is that puppy love then ?
Few guys, when asked, they say "what, I love this girlfriend most what". Problem is, sometimes, girls just don't want to be loved MOST, they want to be the only one and this is something guys don't understand. Some guys even say things like "buy her something she happy can liao" What do they think we are ?

Most guys cheat. I can't possibly find ONE happy couple who hasn't cheated on each other before and by couple i mean couples that actually lasted more than a year.
Why do they cheat ? Is it cos of boredom ? Or is there too many pretty girls out there that you guys can't choose ?

Sometimes, when I know my friend's boyfriend isn't a good guy, but my friend is happy with him, always talking bout the things he did, the sweet things he did, I get worried thinking, what if she gets hurt double when she finds out he's cheating ?

I have friends who are jerks too. Like one who doesn't want to get married cos he said then he'll be stuck to one. He enjoys smsing many girls at a time even though he has a girlfriend, he talks to random chics on the phone at night.

I need answers, why do people cheat ?

Do they deserve a second chance ?

I did not mention anyone particular in the post, so if you think its you, don't go running to the principal like a coward saying i'm talking bout you cos i did not say any names and oh yeah, dont say im too young to talk about this. I'm just voicing my thoughts. (:


Daowen said...

THat idiot backstabbing girl reported you to the principal??
and you remove the post?? for fuck?

Shuwen said...

she didnt backstab me la, she backstabbed my friend LOL. but i think she mentioned my name LOL. apparently all the boys are on her side. What to do, people petite and pretty wtf.

M a n n R u i said...

holy shit LOL
cheaters all over around
who can really swear that they never cheat
i do cheat
beautiful lie that dun hurt
but the boys you mention was really wtfftw

Xiaopei said...

I somehow agree with Rui. Lie that doesn't hurt.

Seriously, if these kind of guys met the one (a girl they really like 99), but the one cheat them (karma) then it's interesting.

den said...

Im inside ! I know it.

fiona06 said...

yes it's true that alot of guys are cheaters and damn good liars. I wonder what's with the world nowadays

Lean said...

Dropping by ere. =)

Yiwen said...

nice layout. should do one for me! btw who's the boyfriend who half cheated on you? eugene a?

ohmywtf said... first glance i was shocked at ur statement bout u being a lesbian!!

Lukey Cher Hong said...

LOL, being a guy myself, i feel the urge to stand up and say something. Well, to defend us guys at least.

Why do guys cheat?

Well some might blame it on evolution on how guys and girls are wired differently. Eg: guys are supposed to have many wives etc because on bla bla bla (insert all the bio reasons here). They might even draw similarities in the animal kingdom where the male tends to get more mates and justify it.

I, on the other hand thinks it's because of the environment on grows up in. The impact of peers for example is one. The media too plays a role. When one is told over and over again that cheating is ok and it's normal to cheat, well you can guess where it leads to.

But i would like to clarify that not all guys cheat. There are tons of guys who do not cheat but the only problem is that these people sucks at chasing girls. Which partly explains why you don't get to see them often.

And there are also tons of girls who cheat too. The ones that cheat for Gucci, credit cards and condo. So i guess that makes us guys and girl even.

Shuwen said...

@rui haha, yeah the guys i mentioned are dumb LOL :X
@xiaopei zomg karma. That would be so dramatic !
@den OF COURSE YOU'RE IN IT, out of everyone i know you cheat the most :P
@fiona Exactly, wheres all the lovey dovey old old couples ?
@yiwen yala yala, that guy la LOL come back msia first !
@wtf HAHA really wtf to you lor. XD
@dori YOU WERENT KIDDING BOUT THE LONG COMMENT haha. but yeah, guys and girls are equal. hmm

IVY said...


one thing though in this society, coz if men cheat it's something that is to them quite forgivable, BUT if women cheats it's something so DEGRADING and UNFORGIVABLE!

Scarlet said...

I like this post ^^ but i don't quite agree with this gender-based statement.. just like some of the above blogmates :) ...

Speaking frm my experiences.. i guess it just depends on their individual personality. True, a lot of guys are quite cheaters, yet so are some gals too.. :)..

Juhann said...

Lolz... define your cheating. If cheating as in having a second GF then i'm sorry to disappoint you but I have been with my gf for about 2 years now and I haven't been with another girl since then. If your definition of cheating is a little bit of flirting here and there then I have. But if that is your definition of cheating then I think it's kinda "kolot" for teenagers our age. Like your post though! Keep it up! =)


Mindy said...

my ex cheated on me if he was to ask me 2 give him a 2nd chance, i'll ask him 2 piss off...guys who cheat on their gf totally suck...there will be retribution on them..i swear...

Shuwen said...

@ivy I AGREE
@scarlet hmm true. Guess i was being too sexist XD
@juhann you're a diff case laah, want cheat also cant cheat with your face lor ! HAHA just kidding :X
@mindy wah so ganas one ! But at least now you have a guy who loves you :D

den said...

Grr ! No ! I dun cheat (Not tat often !)